Self-connection is in the palm of your hands.

I already know this is for me

Your big feelings, your big capacity for care and your big heart need big boundaries. And boundaries begin in your body.

 

You are a big feeler. You're sensitive to the needs of others and the needs of our planet.

 

You care about creating a world that feels more just and where the needs of marginalised people are prioritised. You understand that uplifting the oppressed supports the ecosystem of all life - it is not a zero sum game.

 

You can hear Earth’s cry.

 

You recognise that climate change and all the negative environmental issues we are facing are Mother Earth’s way of showing us that we are wounding her.

 

Your deep embodied wisdom tells you that the rupture in our relationship with Mother Earth is a reflection of the rupture in the relationship with ourselves and each other.

 

The culture of conformity, commodification and consumerism has created a system of mistrust and this mistrust is strategically implanted within our bodies. We learn that our needs are obstacles preventing us from conforming so that we may commodify ourselves and consume as a means of distraction from how detached we have become. We unwittingly uphold a system built for our demise.

 

“Systems do not maintain themselves; even our lack of intervention is an act of maintenance. Every structure in every society is upheld by the active and passive assistance of other human beings.”

- Sonya Renee Taylor.

 

Deep inside we know this, which is why we feel wounded and are unconsciously seeking healing. You know that we cannot continue like this and you want to be part of making a change and repairing the wound caused by the exploitation of capitalism. And you know that change and repair cannot be facilitated with the dominant energy that caused the rupture in the first place. 

 

You know that change cannot be made and healing cannot take place whilst you feel depleted by how much you care. You also know that truly holding people accountable requires strength and you cannot be strong when your energy is leaking through porous boundaries.

 

The way you care is radical.

Radical care needs boundaries.

Boundaries begin in your body as does your strength.

 

“When I dare to be powerful to use my strength in service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.”

- Audre Lorde.

 

You know that the ‘power-over’ toxic patriarchal status quo is coming to an end and want to be part of creating something new. Something where we go from ‘power over’ to giving ‘power to’ and share ‘power with’.

 

It is time to liberate your fertile sensual life force energy - the energy of creation. This energy creates babies, art, businesses and movements.

 

This starts with reclaiming your power and sharing it with those in need and those who are worth of your potent sensual life force energy. This starts with you.

 

And this revolutionary act begins in your body.

 

It’s time to repair the rupture in your relationship with yourself caused by a system designed to dysregulate you. Our system of oppression and toxic productivity benefits from you disconnecting from the wisdom of your body. When you are disconnected from your natural intelligence it’s easier to manipulate you into believing that your value is in your next achievement rather than nestled in your cells.

 

Your innate sense of value and your capacity to make changes is a direct reflection of your relationship with your body. This is not about body positivity, this is about embodied mastery. This is about being in commune with your feminine energy and treating your body with reverence.

 

This is not a mindset. You cannot think or plan your way into right-relationship with your sensual life force energy. This is a sacred act of movement, touch, feeling and being.

 

It begins with the palm of your hands.

I'm ready to begin the practice of reclaiming my power.

It's time to reclaim your(whole)self.

Join me on a journey of reconnecting with your inner vitality and relearning how it powerful it feels to be you.

INTRODUCING...

ESSENSUAL FLOW.

CONNECT WITH WHAT MATTERS MOST.

 

  • Would you like a healthier relationship with yourself - a relationship where you build self-trust and allow your body to guide you towards what feels powerful, resonant and pleasurable? 
  • Would you like to learn what boundaries and consent feel like in your body?
  • How would it feel to experience yourself as whole and to work in partnership with your quirks rather than shut them down? 
  • How would it feel to begin to feel good in your skin? 

 

Essensual Flow is a gentle somatic movement practice and guided meditation created to support you reconnect with the aliveness and wisdom of your body. The practice is informed by Polyvagal theory, the Non-Linear Movement Method, Tai Chi, Somatic Coaching, my experience of guiding overthinking women and of course my own embodied wisdom.

 

This practice is designed to re-sensitise you to your creative sensuality, call your energy back into your body and feel your boundaries. 

 

It is a reintroduction to the real you.

 

Show me where to sign up!

MODULE #1

  • How and why I created this movement practice.
  • Why connecting to your sensual creative energy is important.
  • The movement practice and guided meditation.

MODULE #2

  • Guided meditation audio.
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I'M TAMU.

Hi I'm Tamu...

 I am the purveyor of joy and I want to help you begin to enjoy who you are from the inside out.

 

I am an emotional well-being coach for women in business. I am also writer, workshop facilitator, podcaster and Non-Linear Movement practitioner. I am passionate about social justice and know that emotional safety is the foundation of a just society.

 

“If you want to improve the world start by making people feel safer” - Dr Stephen Porges

 

I help over-functioning, overworking, over-achieving entrepreneurs learn how to understand their nervous system and cultivate enough emotional safety to trust that they are inherently worthy. You are inherently worthy.

 

I want women like you to fall in love with yourself so you can make powerful choices about how you live, love and work.

 

And this starts with befriending yourself and repairing the rupture in your relationship with your body caused by systemic oppression, toxic productivity and shame.

 

I want to help you liberate yourself from the tyranny of over-working and people pleasing by tending to your needs and creating healthy boundaries.

 

"The decision I made to work with Tamu was life changing.  She has become my much loved fairy godmother - providing loving but clear insight; melds science with soul and creates incredible connections. 

 

Tamu is relentless in her pursuit of seeing others shine whilst prioritising joy and her loving calling in of how I was keeping myself small has enabled me to take huge leaps forward in ways that feel safe and aligned.  

 

A real one <3 "

 - Sadie

 

As well as being passionate about social justice and emotional safety I love learning. When I am learning new things my toes curl and my heart races with excitement. One of the best new things I am learning is bellydance! I love life, I feel like it's a real blessing to be alive as such I take joy very seriously.

 

Many people in the online business space talk about money as if it is our salvation, but for me it is access. For me true wealth is being able to live well. This means creating a life where I factor in joy so I can roller skate in the park in the middle of the day, have baths at 3pm in the afternoon and surprise my daughter by collecting her from school to watch marvel movies.

 

When I forget to live according to the above and fall into the trap of over-working and under-living I become anxious and irritable. My mood becomes low and I have endless respiratory issues. When I function like this my capacity for living becomes reduced to existing and I rebuke that! I choose to thrive.

 

I laugh at my own jokes and have an 80's, 90's and 00's musical reference for every situation.

"Tamu is a leader, and a bloody good one. She has taught me LIFE-CHANGING stuff about the central nervous system, as well as general wellbeing and how best to keep ourselves healthy in body and mind. For anyone looking for a group coaching experience, Tamu is YOUR WOMAN. She creates a strong community of women to share with, and the best video workshops (that you can access in your own time). Tamu is Sovereign, and she will teach you how to be too.."

 
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"Tamu is real, inspirational and a blessing in any space she enters. Working with her captures that rare combination of being grounded and magical simultaneously"

 
 
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